You stop doing this alone
Isolation keeps the cycle running. In Rebuild you sit with a small group of men who know the same shame, and you get to tell the truth out loud.
Rebuild Men's Group
You have been carrying this alone long enough.
Isolation, secrecy, and the next slip do not stay small. They take the marriage, the self-respect, and the next year. You want out of the cycle, and to be known without being crushed for it.
A weekly online men's group for recovery from sex addiction, porn, and compulsive sexual behavior. Small groups of 6–8 men on Zoom, led by Derek Evans, M.A., LPC-MHSP(A).
Hope. Purpose. Healing.
The problem is not that you have not tried.
The hiding. The fear of being found out. The marriage that cannot take another secret. Managing it alone is still managing it.
Isolation
Known without judgment
Shame after the slip
A place to tell the truth
Secrecy and a double life
Freedom you can live in
Broken trust
Trust rebuilt, one week at a time
Why I run this
The man is the one doing the work. Rebuild is the guide. Nobody else can want this for you. What you can have is a room — online, confidential — with other men who know the same shame, and a licensed counselor who will not flinch or flatter.
I run Rebuild because secrecy is lonely work, and it doesn't get lighter by itself. I'm Derek Evans, M.A., LPC-MHSP(A), and I lead every group. Rebuild is part of Derek Evans Counseling at Alliance Counseling. Empathy without excuse.
Accountability with structure
Honest accountability with other men, inside a structure that holds week to week. The group holds each other to it. I hold the room.
Practice, not just insight
Group is where you practice naming what you feel and handling it without the old escape. You build a different response instead of just understanding the old one.
I lead every group. I’m a licensed counselor, and I don’t flinch or flatter.
Every man in the room knows what it’s like to carry this in secret.
Men tend to wait a long time to ask for help. You don’t need a speech. “I want a group” is enough.
A fit call comes first, then a cohort, a weekly group, and a rhythm between sessions so the work doesn’t live only in the hour.
How it works
- Schedule a fit call.
- Get matched into a cohort.
- Start the weekly group plus the between-session rhythm.
What's included
Weekly groups for men recovering from sex addiction, porn, and compulsive sexual behavior. Online only, on Zoom.
Groups stay small, typically 6–8 men. A fit call comes first so we can talk honestly about confidentiality and readiness. Between sessions there's a rhythm, so the work doesn't live only in the hour.
Serving men across Tennessee online. Questions? Call 615-538-7577. The group's own site is rebuildmensgroup.com · Instagram @rebuildmensgroup.
Questions
Who is Rebuild for?
Men recovering from sex addiction, porn, and compulsive sexual behavior who are tired of carrying it alone. The man does the work. Rebuild is the guide.
How do groups meet?
Weekly, on Zoom. Rebuild is online only, so you can join from anywhere in Tennessee.
How many men are in a group?
Groups stay small, typically 6–8 men.
What does it cost?
We go over cost on the fit call, along with schedule and readiness, before you commit to anything.
How do I start?
Contact me for a fit call. We talk through readiness, confidentiality, and whether a current cohort is the right room.
If you are tired of managing a double life
You don't need a polished speech. Say you want a group. That's enough to start.
Counseling and groups are not a substitute for emergency services. If this is an emergency, call 911. For 24/7 support, contact the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.